Friday 4 December, 2009When a Sexless Partner Changes his Mind

Whenever people speak about wanting their partner to change, it’s usually with an air of half-resignation that their partner won’t (or can’t). Yet I have discovered that when the impossible happens and a partner ...

Saturday 28 November, 2009The Blow Job is Enough?

A common complaint I hear women say who are involved in a long-term relationship is: “Why doesn’t he want sex anymore?”

A common complaint I hear men say who are involved in long-term relationship is: “Why ...

Friday 27 November, 2009Reminiscing about Past Partners

The older I get, the less I like hearing about all the rules that are publicized for men and women to do to get along with one another in relationships. The ones I take the most exception to are the ones that give a ...

Thursday 26 November, 2009Loving an Unaffectionate Man

The hardest thing about spending a great deal of time with an unaffectionate man is seeing him be affectionate to someone or something else-such as a pet or another person. Since you’ve seen with your own eyes that he ...

Wednesday 25 November, 2009Maybe Breaking Up Isn’t the Thing to Do...

There are so many ways to break up with people, aren’t there? Yet where is all this knowledge when we discover that we just want out of the relationship that we’re in?

I know the movies make fun of breaking ...