Friday 27 November, 2009Reminiscing about Past Partners

The older I get, the less I like hearing about all the rules that are publicized for men and women to do to get along with one another in relationships. The ones I take the most exception to are the ones that give a ...

Thursday 26 November, 2009Loving an Unaffectionate Man

The hardest thing about spending a great deal of time with an unaffectionate man is seeing him be affectionate to someone or something else-such as a pet or another person. Since you’ve seen with your own eyes that he ...

Wednesday 25 November, 2009Maybe Breaking Up Isn’t the Thing to Do...

There are so many ways to break up with people, aren’t there? Yet where is all this knowledge when we discover that we just want out of the relationship that we’re in?

I know the movies make fun of breaking ...

Tuesday 24 November, 2009So Far…

Sometimes dreams shared with someone are hard to let go of. Like maybe some of the dreams that you’ve been hanging on to that include your ex-husband or ex-wife.

It took me years to wean myself off the dreams ...

Saturday 14 November, 2009The Recognition of Habits

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone for so long that they claim that they recognize your habits even before you do? And over time you’ve found, much to your annoyance, that what they said was true?
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