Friday 5 December, 2008Common Acronyms...

Since the birth of the internet, there have been online BDSM groups.  You can find them just about everywhere, and with every imagineable kind of kink.

 But there are some strange things going on ...

Friday 14 November, 2008The Edge of Extreme

Extreme play runs the gamut of BDSM. Keep in mind that what one person thinks is extreme is what someone else does on a daily basis. There is no one definition of extreme for everyone.

However, everyone's ...

Thursday 13 November, 2008Introduction to Negotiations

I have received mail requesting that I discuss many different subjects. Out of all the mail that I have received, I believe this is THE most important and crucial subject thus far.

The letter that really ...

Wednesday 12 November, 2008Safety First!

Everyone has heard at least one horror story. Someone got burned, someone got electrocuted, someone got killed; those stories have been around forever.
For those who have common sense, this little safety lecture ...

Monday 10 November, 2008The Golden Rules of BDSM

In the Lifestyle of BDSM, there is one thing that remains consistant: The Rule of Three (Safe, Sane, and Consensual). It is the guideline by which all things are done, from meeting, to negotiation, to play and quite ...