Saturday 10. of May 2008 Introduction to Negotiations

I have received mail requesting that I discuss many different subjects. Out of all the mail that I have received, I believe this is THE most important and crucial subject thus far.

The letter that really made Me want to address...

Sunday 04. of May 2008 BDSM 101

BDSM, in literal terms, is an acronym which usually stands for something along the lines of, "Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism." I've heard a few differences, but this seems to be the most readily accepted.

But for the...

Wednesday 23. of April 2008 Tied in knots

People who find it erotic to be tied up find it so for a variety of reasons

The most frequently cited reason is a mental freedom from inhibitions and responsibility since they have, in a way, given up control of the sexual...

Tuesday 15. of April 2008 The Golden Rules of BDSM

In the Lifestyle of BDSM, there is one thing that remains consistant: The Rule of Three (Safe, Sane, and Consensual). It is the guideline by which all things are done, from meeting, to negotiation, to play and quite often to a...

Monday 07. of April 2008 The Edge of Extreme

Extreme play runs the gamut of BDSM. Keep in mind that what one person thinks is extreme is what someone else does on a daily basis. There is no one definition of extreme for everyone.

However, everyone's extreme has at least...