Wednesday 09. of July 2008 Men Equating Fun as Sex

Everyone knows that when a guy writes in his profile that he wants some fun or he’s looking for a woman to have some fun with, that he’s not talking about concerts, plays, movies, conversation, going out to dinner, dancing or any...

Sunday 06. of July 2008 After The First Time

It was close to six months before I had sex someone whom I’d met through the personals. And having done it, having finally crossed that line, I am glad for the measures I took that were actually my instincts taking over and...

Sunday 29. of June 2008 Deserving Your Own Compassion

I received a disturbing email last night.

It was from a woman who said her husband had contacted me and other women without her knowing about it. As I had sent nothing back but an email addressed to the both of them (it had...

Thursday 26. of June 2008 Let’s Spot The Red Flags

This morning I was reading about a female who met someone online over a month ago. The relationship moved fast and both she and the man consider themselves to be one another’s “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” She states that she...

Monday 23. of June 2008 The Perception of Beauty

It’s interesting, isn’t it? That as we age, our perceptions about what beauty is expands…and someone we might not have found attractive years ago suddenly becomes appealing.

Does this mean we have settled? Or are we merely...