Spanking, No Sex?
DCJake - Would you be able to be fulfilled, be perplexed or just pissed off if you gave/got a good spanking but then that was the extent of the "session"?
Jimflexx - I have had many spanking sessions where sex wasn't involved. It all depends on what is wanted or needed by my partner. Often, adding in sex can be too much to deal with, especially the first time we meet. I can take it or leave it, and can enjoy the spanking session for what it is.
BigMama717 - I can't imagine NOT having sex after getting a good hard spanking. I'm so horny when my bottom is on fire that I would be climbing the walls if the session stopped there.
cyrano_II - Right on, BigMama - I'm with you!
doman12 - For me, spanking is very much about setting the tone for what is coming. I am trying to help my 'victim' get into the right mental space and yes, I am trying to spank her in such a way that she will turn on and want to please 'bad daddy'. Of course, I'm talking about spanking, not flogging and heavy SM stuff.
redbottom33 - I like that kind of spanking, doman. I can have a guy I just met give me a spanking, but I have to know someone for awhile before I'm willing to have sex.
DCJake - Spanking definately is a warm up in more ways than one!
jc7295 - Yep. Let's 'em know who's in control. Sometimes I'll bring an experienced sub along to give me head after I spank a new canidate. I'll tie the newbie up and make 'em watch from a few inches away.
Jimcando316 - If you are going to be spanked..you should probably know ahead of time whether sex is part of it or not.If you leave a spanking session pissed off or perplexed..you should be pissed off at yourself for not communicating enough with would be spanker ahead of time... I would certainly rather have sex be part of it for sure whether giving or receiving but have experienced no sex as part of a great spanking too. I like to spank over the knee..and love to push my finger inside her wet sex to drive her crazy...then continue on with the spanking..doing this over and over really is great foreplay..
redbottom33 - Mmmmmmmmmmmm
OTKJAKE - When it comes to a discipline spanking there is no room for sex. The problem with most sessions that aren't negotiated up front is, if sex is in play the man will do everything he can to get to the sex. If the woman understands that sex is out of the equation she realizes that she is in for a discipline spanking that will leave her red, sore, and contrite. Take out the sex and watch her face turn white and her bottom turn crimson.
redbottom33 - Mmmmm, I could use some of that discipline OTKJAKE!
cyrano_II - There is certainly a naughty girls' behind waiting to be spanked in Michigan! And that naughty girl deserves more than just discipline - red cheeks on the face should match those below...
PeterG - I rather give a stright forward spanking where no sex is involved.
otkloverjohn - I agree with the rest of the postings. There can be basically three types of spankings: pure discipline with no sex, discipline with sex as a reward for taking the punishment, and just plain sensual erotic sex spankings. The players of the game should both know before hand exactly where and how the session will be handled and how it will end.
IMAQT14U - Sex and a Spanking, Sex with no spanking, Spanking with no sex.....what it all boils down to is this: Master/Mistress decides, He/She is in charge, and it really doesn't matter if His/Her sub gets pissed off or not. LOL. It's called "submission" for a reason.
stripedbottom - I might be in the minority here but I prefer discipline sessions without sex, otherwise it wouldn't be a punishment would it?
sweet1951 - I prefer Discipline spankings, with no sexual activities. I have been spanked by Doms and would like to find a Fem to spank my bottom Cardinal Red.