Dating Articles
Sunday 7 March, 2010Honesty Online
My complaint is men who lie about having a wife or girlfriend. I won't date someone who's married or attached to someone. It's just not something I do. I feel I've covered myself if I ask and I'm told there's no significant other. You might be surprised to learn that I've been caught in that lie trap about 7 times. 7 times means it's a bit of a trend, don't you think? I asked each one and later brought them back to my apartment where I said, "See? I'm single - are you?" Getting a, "Yes, I'm single," means I'm good to go sexwise.
Not too long ago I met this guy online and we did the usual emailing and hot chatting and decided to meet in person. I'm a careful sort of person so we met in a public place and I did the routine questioning asking if he was single as he had told me he was. Confimations over with, we were off to my place and soon we were both naked with our hands running over each other's body. The taste of him filled me with a desire that wouldn't end. The sex was hot and it was fun. He gave me his cell phone number and told me to give him a call and let him know when I might want to see him again.
Imagine my surprise when I sent him a text, "I keep thinking about your hard cock, I'm ready to do it again," and the reply came back, "Who r u?"
Instantly my thoughts were that he has so many women on his string that sex with me wasn't a standout occasion. Bastard! So I sent back, "Anal beads, vibrating cock ring and jell-o," thinking that surely that would make him remember me. It had only been three days.
The text I received was, "Do u no who this is?" Of course I know but I sent back, "This is u or your wife." Next message, "Remind me when we fucked?" Aww fuck, it's the wife. He'd know when we played with jell-o while fucking. Now what do I do?
I did nothing. Sure enough in about 3 minutes the phone rang and this woman is screaming at me for stealing her husband. I mean REALLY screaming in my ear. So I did what any ordinary woman would do. I said, "I have NO idea what you're talking about, you must have the wrong number," and hung up.
I like fucking. I don't like drama.
If you're cheating on your wife or girlfriend, don't say you're single and then give out your phone number. It's not fair to either of us. If you're not getting fucked properly discuss it with your other half.
That guy's name was Rick and a week later he called and wanted a repeat jell-o performance and I told him I don't fuck guys with a girlfriend and I don't fuck guys who lie.