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Monday 18 May, 2009Who says BBWs’ Aren’t Sexy?
Now, this isn’t news to any of us BBWs. In fact we’ve known this about ourselves for years. We know we like sex! We now that our appetite for sex is equal to our appetite for good food! Not like sex? Why wouldn’t we?
Oh, I know. You think that just because our stomachs are bigger and our hips wider and our breast are larger and our overall body parts just more jiggly, that we don’t feel sexy or sensual or sassy? Or appear that way to others? Give me a break. What does THAT have to do with anything?
You know who BBWs are? Women. WE ARE WOMEN. No more, no less. So what if we have more body than our flat-stomach, tight arms, perky little breasts counter parts. So what?
I have never heard of a woman anywhere making an assumption that any man that doesn’t have: a full head of hair, wicked smiling eyes, a handsome face, great shoulders and arms, a firm chest, nice stomach, tight butt-is any less of a sexual being. And what if we did? What if we were like some of you guys who think we are somehow less feminine and desirable just because you don’t prefer us?
Let’s try it your way. Hmm. Going by the above perception, what we need to do is to put on the “He’s Not Sexy” list guys who are: bald, too short, too tall, too narrow, too wide, too pretty, too geeky, too goofy, too hairy, too quiet, too sensitive, too feminine, non-athletic, snore loudly, still laugh when they fart…
Guys who have been married more than once, guys who have been married more than twice, guys who have been married more than three times and guys who haven’t been married at all. Then there are the guys who are: too corporate, too sports-orientated, have too many guy friends or too many girlfriends.
Shall I go on?
Oh why not…
Guys who live at home, guys who still have their mothers waiting on them, guys who don’t lift a finger around the house. Guys who make lots of money and don’t share it; guys who don’t work at all, guys who have money but do nothing but indulge themselves and contribute nada. Add to that the guys with tempers, jealousy to the extreme, rules, demands and the assumption that he is “king.”
And (very important) let’s not forget: if the dick is too big it will hurt so we don’t want it, and if the dick is too small we won’t feel it so we kind of don’t want that either. Not that we’d say that to you. Not most of us, anyway.
What kicked this off? A profile I read that said something like this: “Intelligent, caring, sexy, open-minded man wants to converse with intelligent, caring, open-minded sexy women. NO FATTIES. If you’re fat, don’t even waste my time.”
Babe-don’t waste our time.
