Tuesday 26 May, 2009Women and Personal Pictures (Part I)

I read something interesting on a friend’s blog today. He said he’s been reading a lot of women’s complaints of the men who just send them pictures of their cocks in an initial introduction or because these guys think that this is what turns the ladies on. He went on to say that as far as he is concerned, why are just the women complaining? Did it ever occur to the women that maybe there are guys out there that would like a photo of something else other than boobs or pussy or ass shots?

Um, no..that never really occurred to me, truthfully. Fact is, I’m not sure I even know of a man who wouldn’t like to receive that in their inbox.

But his point is valid. Not all the men who post an ad or who are looking for a woman are feeling that they need to see detail shots of certain body parts. And while some men salivate over these pictures and I’m sure rejoice over receiving them, for other men, looking at the picture is nice but it’s not telling them much about the person. And believe it or not, there are actually some men who would like to get to know a female more in depth.

“Where are they then?”  I can just about hear you asking.

They are out there. But I’m finding that you may have to be specific. I know for myself in writing my own profile that though I enjoy the hell out of sex and would be awfully happy to experience it on a daily basis, jumping into bed with a stranger has never been an option nor desire for me; and once I firmly established that in my profile, my emails went way down.  But so what? Because if it’s a man of decency and integrity that you are looking to meet, eliminating what you don’t want is very often a step towards allowing who you do want to contact you.  

Back to the men who would like more detail about a woman other than what her labia looks like.

Is it possible that we women have also been brainwashed into thinking that all men just want a certain breast size or ass shape in order to meet us? Isn’t that just like many of our assumptions that we have to beautiful or of a particular size for a man to want to meet us? 

But wait a minute! I can almost hear some of you screaming. To men, it is all about size and beauty! Some of them won’t even talk to girls who have too small breasts or too large ones or whose butt is too wide or nose is too long ..so, if I have some of these imperfections but I know how to make love, and if I send a picture of a more personal nature, well..then maybe that will get someone interested in me enough to overlook what he might find unattractive.

Ah.That’s my next topic